Sex bed sheets

I realize that sometimes adventurous sex can seem a little overrated. Is sex bed sheets really worth putting in all this effort for a questionable outcome, like a twig in my thigh?

Research shows that new things literally trigger activity in a part of our brain that makes us feel good and releases the happy hormone, dopamine. And sex itself causes a surge in oxytocin, the warm-and-fuzzy hormone that makes us feel close to our partners. Lucky for you, spring is finally here, which means that we’re not stuck inside all the time—and you getting some action in places like a pool, beach, or car isn’t something that would put you at risk of hypothermia. Plus, there are plenty of indoor places where getting busy is just as safe, but way more exciting than between the sheets. Check out eight fun, hot, off-the-grid positions to try in unusual places. A version of this article was originally published in April 2017. The standing partner will be doing most of the work in this position, but being in a pool will definitely ease some of that burden,” says Nelson.

Pro tip: Squeeze your vaginal walls tight, and do kegel exercises while your lover is thrusting. This will add tightness and pleasure for both parties. This position is all about communication and letting your lover know how you like to be pleasured,” says Nelson. If the top partner is on the edge of a kitchen counter, for instance, you can modify by putting your legs over his or her shoulder while being eaten out. You can also put your hand on his or her head and grind your pelvis to orgasm. You can modify this one by dropping down to your knees if your arms get tired and spreading your legs wider for maximum satisfaction,” says Nelson. If it’s not a totally spontaneous romp, it helps to bring towels or blankets for under your knees.

This is a great position for people who have a hard time orgasming, as it gives you the chance to have a blended clitoral vaginal orgasm,” says Nelson. Make sure you’re using extra water-based lubricant, as you need more thrusting at this angle. Ideally, the partner on the bottom can self-pleasure, while being penetrated and bring his or herself to orgasm. The sensation of coming while thrusting is amazing and has the potential to give you a G-spot orgasm, as well as a clitoral one. Since this position can hit your G-spot at a different angle, this could be extremely pleasurable for the receiver and super-tight-feeling for male lovers,” says Nelson.