Crab sex position

Lazy sex syndrome is definitely a crab sex position thing—and for good reason. In the heat of the moment, it doesn’t always feel organic to stop what you’re doing and rearrange your bodies and limbs into a new and adventurous position. I’ll give you a few reasons to consider. And some are minor twists on classics that are just a good reminder to try every so often.

A version of this article originally appeared in October 2016. This position is similar to cowgirl, but a little trickier, because you’ll be leaning back with your arms supporting your weight, rather than your knees. Ease into it slowly, and be sure to check in with him, because sudden movements could strain his penis,” says sexologist Emily Morse, Ph. Go slowly, and keep in mind that you might not want to try this one if you and your partner aren’t at all flexible. The guy can help to support his partner by slightly bending his knees so she can use his thighs for some support, instead of resting all her weight on her hands,” says Morse. This one is like girl-on-top, except with the genders reversed.

This position increases the intensity and tightness for both partners,” says Morse. Many women are able to reach orgasm more easily when their legs are clenched closer together, and he’ll enjoy the added tightness as he enters. Climax may happen quickly for both of you—you’ve been warned! Great for partners of all genders and orientations, the absolute 69 is a slight variation on the regular 69 in that one partner is directly on top of the other, facedown.

Some sources suggest adding digital penetration to the mix to really take things over the top—assuming your partner is down. Lie down on your back and have your partner grab your legs, holding them out in a V-shaped position while kneeling and thrusting. This position is called ‘victory’ for a reason, as it allows deep, intense penetration, excellent for G-spot stimulation—and potential orgasm for both partners,” says Morse. This position is great stimulation for both partners, whether it’s two women or a woman and a man. The intense friction can feel amazing, but don’t forget to use lube and reapply as needed,” says Morse. This way you can keep grinding and the lube will add some needed slip which will not only adds to the intensity, but makes it more slick than dry from the rubbing. Try side to side, which is a slightly more energized and interesting version of spooning.